Hello Internet,
Naturally, most guys in relationships ask about their partner's past. This may have been a terrible idea, but I will relay what happened. I feel very vulnerable and insecure and am not sure if I have valid reasons. Here is basically how that conversation went.
I ask her how may guys she has been with. She said she only had sex with one and that another guy she only did oral stuff with. I asked her how I compared. She told me and said one "might have been as long as me." The other wasn't threatening to me. She really just doesn't know nor can tell me absolutely if I am her biggest after I've pestered her for days. The only thing she knows for sure is that he was pencil thin and that I am way way thicker. She says she is inclined to believe that I am longer than him, but she really doesn't know and there is no way to actually remember. She's never lied to me before, and she has never once changed the story. She doesn't talk to any exes. Literally, she doesn't do anything she did before she met me. All she wants is for me to feel secure. She has told me she never enjoyed actual sex with her ex and they could never actually complete the act. "Like as soon as he would penetrate me, I would tell him to pull out." She says I'm far more attractive, smarter, and better in bed than him. She literally says I have no reason to feel insecure and that I beat him at everything. But I still feel insecure. This got to the point where she said she can't deal with me anymore and is seriously considering ending the relationship.
Overall, do I have valid reasons to feel insecure about her past or did I obsess to the point of pushing her away?
Naturally, most guys in relationships ask about their partner's past. This may have been a terrible idea, but I will relay what happened. I feel very vulnerable and insecure and am not sure if I have valid reasons. Here is basically how that conversation went.
I ask her how may guys she has been with. She said she only had sex with one and that another guy she only did oral stuff with. I asked her how I compared. She told me and said one "might have been as long as me." The other wasn't threatening to me. She really just doesn't know nor can tell me absolutely if I am her biggest after I've pestered her for days. The only thing she knows for sure is that he was pencil thin and that I am way way thicker. She says she is inclined to believe that I am longer than him, but she really doesn't know and there is no way to actually remember. She's never lied to me before, and she has never once changed the story. She doesn't talk to any exes. Literally, she doesn't do anything she did before she met me. All she wants is for me to feel secure. She has told me she never enjoyed actual sex with her ex and they could never actually complete the act. "Like as soon as he would penetrate me, I would tell him to pull out." She says I'm far more attractive, smarter, and better in bed than him. She literally says I have no reason to feel insecure and that I beat him at everything. But I still feel insecure. This got to the point where she said she can't deal with me anymore and is seriously considering ending the relationship.
Overall, do I have valid reasons to feel insecure about her past or did I obsess to the point of pushing her away?
Did I mess up my relationship?
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