Why do women tell me this?

I said hi to an attractive lady at the checkout of a thrift store a few months ago. When we were in the parking lot she smiled at me again when we were getting into our cars. I then saw her at a concert a month later and we chatted a bit and she told me she is an artist and also has a booth at an antique mall. She was with a guy and I didn’t ask her out. At a department store I saw her again. We chatted a bit in the store and then she tells me she took a Xanax the day before and is really tired. I have taken Xanax before and it only lasts 4-6 hours. Then she starts talking about an old boyfriend who she dated a year ago. We talk some more outside and she keeps talking about the ex. I think it’s odd she brings up an ex when she knows I have some interest in her. She said he butt dialed her and she heard him talking to his new girlfriend. I don’t know why this is so upsetting to her if she hasn’t seen him for a long time. She said he was verbally abusive to her. She said she had been married before for 8 years ago but it didn’t work out. I told her that her picker is broken and she agreed. We would talk some more about music and art but she kept changing the subject to the ex boyfriend. She mentioned that when she was at the concert she was out with friends and isn’t dating. She said she was in bed all day and finally got out. I don’t see how this could be so debilitating if she was treated so badly by this guy and she seems to care what he is doing. She said she was over him until she got the call. She should have hung up the ph. when he accidentally called her. We talked some more and she says she is not looking for a boyfriend now. I don’t want to be with someone who I have to take care of either. My questing is why did she tell me she was on Xanax? That is something I would not disclose upon meeting someone. It really threw me.

Two ladies who live in my apartment building have also told me they are on meds. Do I come across a certain way so that they feel comfortable around me or is there something else going on ???

Why do women tell me this?